Lingerie is usually a special treat in most households. Children and jobs often lead to tiring days and impassionate nights. On special occasions, the lingerie comes out to remind the couple what passion feels like with the touch of the lace against the skin and the beauty of the female body in full view. With lingerie, the hint of flesh is teasing enough, as is the thought that he will have to peel through a layer or two in order to get to it.

This year why not surprise him? Depending on the adult, Halloween isn't always the most important occasion. This means that he may not be expecting you to break out the lingerie and introduce him to those seductive fires that have been hidden since the last special occasion. The surprise will do you both good and you will be able to delight in the pleasure you receive knowing that your partner cannot keep his hands off of you.

Of course, there are some rules, or rather guidelines, to lingerie.

Consider the options when choosing what to wear. Not all lingerie is for every woman. Pick out what you like and what you will feel confident wearing. This will make you appear sexier to your lover because confidence is sexy. Take your body and your goal into consideration. If you are generally uncomfortable in lace and find it to be itchy then do not choose a lace outfit. You will not be happy with the outcome, at least while the outfit is still on, if you do.

Colors often mean certain things to certain people. As it is Halloween, look at the color options for your lingerie and consider the deeper meanings. White might mean virginal or innocent. Black could mean evil or naughtiness. Red might mean you are a sexy devil looking for someone to corrupt. You should also choose based on what you feel you look the best in and what goes best with your skin tone. Pasty white skin stands out with red or black, but with white, it would blend in. If you are looking to stand out remember to take the little things into consideration.

What do you want to accomplish from your evening of pleasure? If you are looking to play out some kinky fantasy you've never tried lingerie can help you do just that. However, what is that fantasy? Do you want a rough and violent night of hot sex? If so, you might want to choose something that can be ripped off as he takes you how he wants you. If you are going for a passionate night of lovemaking and intimate bonding you might want to choose something more romantic.

For Halloween, specifically, try dressing up in a new way. This is your opportunity to create a whole new version of yourself. Adult Halloween play can be fun. Instead of wearing any lingerie try creating a sexy little costume. Add some cat ears or a tail to your sexiest teddy outfit or add some angel wings to a white leather outfit you have been waiting to surprise him by wearing.

Remember when choosing your lingerie to keep him in mind, too. Does he prefer breasts or legs in a woman? You can easily find a special outfit with him specifically in mind that you like just as much as he does. If he's a breast man for example, you might want to consider a see-through outfit or a corset that does not cover the breasts. If he prefers sexy long legs you might want to add some stockings and some nice heels to the outfit. This will give him the added pleasure and option of either leaving them on or traveling down your legs as he rolls them off before ravishing you.